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AS A COUPLE – How to live well as a couple? Living together means sharing, loving and building. That said, the couple does not always make life better, it sometimes complicates it. In fact, living happily as a couple learn! There are good things to do and bad things. 

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The couple is both an accelerator of happiness, but can also make misfortune known. Because a couple, and we often forget, needs care and attention. Unfortunately, everyday life leads to forgetting it and even worse, to setting up very bad habits, which little by little kill the couple. 

To live well as a couple, we must be aware that it is not up to our partner to do everything and fill all the roles. This is why it is important to have the following 5 things in mind absolutely to live well as a couple!

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THING #1: OUR PARTNER IS NOT A PROBLEM OR A SOLUTION

Too often, we tend to project our problems onto our partner. When we are bored in our life, we blame our partner for being boring.

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In fact, when we feel bad, when we realize that there is something wrong, instead of looking inside ourselves, asking ourselves the question of what we can do to get better, we look our partner and find him guilty.

Our partner is responsible for our unhappiness, because he does not take initiatives. But what if it was us who didn’t know how to decide?

Everything we feel comes from us, from our interpretation of what is happening to us. And everything that can make us happy comes from us, only from us.

Among the reproaches made to one’s partner, are there not reproaches that one could make to oneself without being aware of it?

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THING #2: OUR PARTNER IS NOT OUR PUNCHING BAG

Here is a very bad habit, that of expressing all our emotions to our partner, without any filter.

In other words, our partner has the “pleasure” of listening to us get upset, complain and lament, knowing that he himself has his own emotions and problems to manage.

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This tendency to call your partner as soon as something happens is a bad habit, exhausting for the other.

His anger needs to be managed. Ditto when we are frustrated or disappointed. And, when you’re sad, you can ask for a hug, it’s so much more constructive than wasting your time complaining.

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Our partner is not our emotional garbage can , and therefore, it is up to us to take care of our emotions first.

So, of course, we can express our negative emotions such as anger, frustration or disappointment, from time to time. Of course, we must also share what is wrong. The problem comes when it becomes a recurring habit of life.

THING #3: OUR PARTNER IS NOT OUR SECRETARY

Again, there are bad habits that set in too quickly. In a couple, a person will “specialize” in a task, and too quickly, we consider that it is due. In other words, we don’t even take the time to say thank you. And worse, we lose our autonomy.

Always letting the other do the accounts, do the shopping or the laundry greatly handicaps us in life and jeopardizes the balance of the couple.

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Let’s learn to turn the caps, to take an interest in the whole life of the couple. And if the other is more comfortable in one area, ask him to teach us.

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THING #4: OUR PARTNER IS NOT A PIECE OF FURNITURE

With the daily life, the obligations and the stress that devours us, we sometimes manage to no longer pause to look our partner in the eye and kiss him, take him in our arms.

It is as if it were part of the furniture.

Our partner is a person we have chosen to accompany us in our life, he deserves that we give him time and attention. Let’s be careful that life doesn’t make us forget it.

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The presence of our partner is not a must. He can leave at any time, he is free to leave. Let’s remind him every day that he is also free to stay.

THING #5: OUR PARTNER IS NOT OUR CARBON COPY

The other is totally different from us, in his desires and his needs.

However, when we live as a couple, we believe that it is essential to have the same desires and the same needs at the same time. Otherwise, it means that we are not made for each other.

Again, this is a big mistake. The other is not us and we are not the other. We are different and that is what makes us together. We learn from each other, we discover each other.

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Of course, it’s not always easy to live with someone who doesn’t have the same desires at the same time as us, but that doesn’t mean it’s impossible.

Being in a relationship is like being happy, it can be learned. We don’t leave our relationship to chance, we take care of it. And we respect our partner, the person we love and with whom we have decided to commit and build a romantic relationship.

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